Why Guys Fear Commitment?

If you are in love with your boyfriend and thinking one day he will get down on his knees to propose you for marriage, you are among the many in line. All guys have an intense hidden fear of commitment to one girl for the rest of their lives. No matter how much of a lover boy or a macho man your guy is, he is after all a “guy”.

And guys fear commitment thinking it’s a jail for life, which his married friends keep on whining to him about. But, it depends on the individual also, how much is he mentally ready to give away the golden days of his bachelor hood for the love of his life. But that takes time, so here is a list of reasons why your boy is hesitant to commit to you: 

1. The most important reason for lack of commitment is that the guy is not settled in his career. 

2. Another reason could be that he doesn’t think of you as marriage material.

3. He thinks he can get better than you so its better to wait than to fall in the well of marriage. 

4. In case, the guy is not doing too well for himself and you are killing it with the six-figure salary per month, he might not like it. 

5. Sometimes, the guy feels he needs to be very sure about the girl to the extent that he almost guaranteed in his mind that the girl would be a perfect fit for him and his family on the whole.

6. Some guys want their girlfriend or to be wife not be just a face but more than that. 

7. If your guy has a history of infidelity in his previous relationships, keep a strong eye on his behavior. 

8. If your guy is strongly ignorant towards your emotions and doesn’t make you feel loved or cared for, this is the first sign, which proves his fearful commitment phobic behavior. 

No matter what excuse he has to not commit to you, if he truly wants to be with you, he will do anything to be with you. So, make sure you make him realize that you are the best he’s ever gonna get.

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